Treating the problem, not your symptoms
A Completely Different Outlook on People, Problems, and Change
I don’t know about you, but I like it when things make sense. With all of my experience and education, I can guarantee another way to make sense of your mental health and relationship problems, backed by current evidence based research and literature. My job is to put myself out of a job by collecting objective data found within your patterns, then forming tailor made interventions to break your unwanted cycles of thought, feeling, and behavior. By the end, you will be equipped with a completely different lens of people, problems, and change, safeguarding you and your loved ones from a future where the cycle spreads to others surviving it.

Matthew Tapper, MS, LMFT
Hi, I’m Matt. I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) who’s passionate in utilizing systemic insights to facilitate change with individuals, couples, and families. I’m also a bit of nerd in this unique way of thinking, and nearing the finish line for my PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy.
- I tend to have an overall positive impact with every problem a client is faced with, however I excel the most with clients who’ve lost hope for change through traditional psychotherapy.
- Beyond that, I have a clear expertise in relationships, breaking negative patterns of relating and facilitating a secure space for connection.
- I especially work well with Men who struggle with anger, and desire to become better Husbands and Fathers.
- Lastly, I have had great success working with clients who suffer from constant anxiety that inevitably leads to bouts of depression.
- Though I could never make someone choose you, if you’re eager for change and committed to finding it, I can guarantee that you will.
Video Consultation
In my decade-long, passionate pursuit of growth to genuinely help others, I’ve created a comprehensive video consultation to lay the groundwork of systemic thinking. This video provides the foundation to make sense of people, problems, and change differently, while also giving you a sense if the service will be worth your investment. If you already find the service helpful, The Consultation serves as a free resource that you can pause, rewind, and replay at any time. As always, I like it when things make sense, and I hope it puts me out of a job!
“Matthew Tapper has been my therapist for almost 5 years. He is unlike any other therapist you will have in your life. He developed a Method that is his signature System of assisting people in dealing with their life circumstance including, pain, grief, Connection, relationships, divorce, separation etc. When you meet him you know he loves what he does.He is a life changer. Worth every Dollar you invest in yourself to be a Better you and then, you will be better with others. There is a methodology and a System to getting ahead in Life and that path of self discovery starts with and your time with Matthew Tapper.”
– ZG
